Do we listen to others complaints thinking that they would never lie to us, and join a band wagon of scorn instead of loving. There is more than one side to a story involving two or more people, and if we are going to react more than pray, we should at least know what is going on. Though a person would not lie to us, they can be mistaken as to the motives of others, and take offense. The heart of all men is not easily understood. What we do know better is what we would mean in a situation if we were perpetrating the action. We also do not know that all things told were true, no matter how trusting we are of people. Maturity, is what today’s Christians need, preceded by Love. If we do not love our brother, we are in darkness. We cannot judge another except to judge ourselves. Think about it, the thing that we feel is so wrong about someone else, is it our guilt instead? God bless us with understanding and love for one another. We owe it to our brethren.