In the beginning, the Bible says that God created them male and female. In a way this is a formation like two puzzle pieces fitting together, as we will soon see. Though Adam had the honor of walking with God in the cool of the evening, the LORD himself said it was not good for man to be alone. I, the LORD said will create a helper suitable for him. This suitable helper is one that physically and mentally could be made as one to fit together as hand and glove. He created Eve to stand beside Adam. Soon these two seemed almost inseparable, especially in entwined hearts.

Later we see, that as they were divided into two persons, that Eve, the drawn out one was to meekly become the mother of all living. She was even named by her husband, but the tradition of having the same name, came from God Himself. The Bible says He called them ADAM. Though she was drawn out of Adam’s side, and became two, the scripture also says they should remain one. Once a couple gets married, they usually have the same name just the same as God had called Adam and Eve. It wasn’t any name, but it was name of the husband. In the New Testament it is said that they became one all over again. Just as the husband of the church gives his name for the whole family of heaven and earth is named. In the New Testament, that name is Jesus.
As things began, the woman was the natural keeper of the home and the children of the marriage, as the man worked hard for bread or the food of the family. This did not mean that men had no place with their children because the scriptures say that as they went to the house of the LORD he was to teach, especially the son. With his godly example, a young man learned how to grow into a man. This allowed time for women to be an example to daughters of how to be a woman. Though often it does not end this way, learning by example is a great way for offspring to learn to assume their roles in life whether or not their occupation is the same, they can learn fundament godly foundation from the parents.

Even today it is seen how difficult it is for young men to mature correctly without a loving father in the home to be an example. Today, families that do not have the male at the helm are often called dysfunctional. If these role models are there, men learn how to treat women, and women how to treat men. Men look at the mother to find a good example of a mate as well as the young lady learns how she should be treated and respond to a man. These things set forth in the beginning can brew a happy home.
A woman is supposed to have a meek and quiet spirit as is taught in scripture. She should find a flow in submission along a right path. This is not always easy for some of us women. However if we fundamentally respect the right a man to be a man and respect him as such this can be the building blocks for a good relationship with the right man. The more who have that kind of spirit have caught the fish.

Some fish have to be scaled, looking over their imperfections because men and women are not the same, and will not do things in the same way. They think differently. We cannot find fault with all of the “quirky” things they do, because we would not want them to be just another woman.
Some others have to be skinned, allowing us to get under that skin to the delicious meat of the heart of a relationship. No one is perfect, Adam needed help. If we can see our way to stop complaining about a man being a man, we can have a happy life when we decide to be his help. Allowing a woman to be a woman and a man to be a man is the right beginning for a relationship. Good training and prayer, can help ladies become one who does not seek the ruler ship, and there by being a fault finder and complainer, and help a man to be the one having love and compassion looking for embrace after a hard days work. Because of a woman’s loving and meek ways, she becomes the center of love and emotional support for the family.