2 Samuel 13:15

American King James Version

 Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. And Amnon said to her, Arise, be gone.

This is the thought the LORD gave to me as I was speaking to Him myself. He said “Daniel was attracted to my looks, but he fell in love with who I was (emotionally, mentally and spiritually)

He asked the question; “ Is it for the women of God to look sexy. Sexy is to attract sex”

Men are very physical beings. What is in their sights, is first attracted to the physical appearance. If they see a woman trying to attract anyone, everyone to the sexiness of their bodies, then they assume that the wares that they come to bring is sex. This sex is for anyone who can take it, it’s on their sign.

The Bible tells a typical story of men. Some think this is an exception, or have not even read it, but it is a very important warning to women. Though Amnon’s sister fought him, she did come into the bedroom of a man, or his chambers (apartment). If you bring or follow a man into private places, expect him to think that you have something to give away. Your body in an alone place with him is the sign that you are “horney”, or by current language, a “hoe”.

Have you notices that many Black men generally call their women, “hoes” or bitches. Have you notices the communities that have been set up for these same women. As the scripture demonstrates, they are hated with the same strength of emotion that they were once loved.  Be gone, he told her after he raped her, or “Get out!”,

No matter what you say about men, they will still be the same. If they think a woman is offering her body for sex because of her clothing, smile, or the place she will be with a man, don’t be suprized if they think you a “hoe” in the end, even though you may have intended nothing like that. They will read according to their own DNA hormones. You can’t change that.

As worldly women continue to take their clothes off, show this crease and that crease, show more leg, discard underwear, don’t be surprised if they don’t believe you to be Godly. Don’t be surprised if they believe you to be like the “nasty” women of the world who have something to give away. A man wants a good, wholesome, even Godly woman for a wife mostly. Not a woman that he can convince to do anything. Look at the divorce record, premarital sex often produces the kind of relationship that dissolves in mistrust and anger.  Hold on to your morals and your clothes, but they must go together. If you are wondering why men treat you a certain way, you might just look in the mirror.

Read the story, 2 Samuel 7-19

⁷ Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon’s house, and dress him meat.

⁸ So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes.

⁹ And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him.

¹⁰ And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother.

¹¹ And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister.

¹² And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.

¹³ And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.

¹⁴ Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

¹⁵ Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.

¹⁶ And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.

¹⁷ Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her.

¹⁸ And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king’s daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her.

¹⁹ And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying.